Men and women often seem to be from completely different universes. Women are generally good at interpreting male psyche. Men, on the other hand, tend to have a lot of trouble relating to and understanding women. Chat lines can be used for various purposes, but if a man is using a chat line to find a long-term relationship with a woman, there’s a good chance they could use some advice! Not only are women difficult to figure out, but there is the added barrier of the phone. Men, who are visual creatures, are forced to abandon their skills in interpreting visual cues. When speaking with a woman on a chat line, it’s important to ask a lot of questions and take the time to both listen and respond to her answers. Asking the questions is the easy part, but knowing what to ask is not so easy! For that reason, we’ve come up with some examples of questions you can ask a woman if you are looking for a long-term relationship.

Specific background questions:

Any person using a chat line has likely been asked the same round of questions: Where are you from? What do you do for work? What do you do for fun? These questions aren’t bad to ask, but they can absolutely feel redundant to a chat line match. Rather than going for the same old same old, we suggest asking specific background questions. Why? For one, it’ll break up the monotony of chat line calls. For another, it shows a woman that you really want to get to know her. Here are some examples:

Unique things she seeks in a partner:

This one should be obvious, but you’d be shocked to learn how many people forget to ask this question! People who do ask this question often present it in the following way: What are you looking for in a partner? This is a mediocre way to ask because it immediately puts the other person on the spot. You’ll want to slyly inform a woman that you are concerned with what she wants in a match, but not outrightly say it. She’ll get the idea if you try more subtle ways of asking. Here are some examples:

Questions based on previous responses:

This is going to be unique for each match you make because (hopefully) each conversation is unique. But, this kind of question is key in establishing a relationship with a woman. After asking the aforementioned types of questions, it’s important to sprinkle in some questions that come to you based on things she has said. It shows that you are listening and it makes her feel that what she has to say is important to you. Check out some of our examples:

Emotionally charged questions:

Without oversharing, feel free to get deep with your match if you feel so inclined. Try to stick to happy subjects. Introducing negative elements to any conversation of this nature is never a great idea. Think about some things that have happened in your life, share, and ask a question that would encourage your match to get emotional with you. Sharing deeper information lends itself to developing a much stronger bond with your partner. We’ve listed some examples below:

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Ask about her ambitions:

Men are typically concerned with the here and now; while women are inclined to plan for the future. Go outside of your comfort zone and begin to discuss that in a light-handed way with your match. Asking about her future plans relationship-wise is important; however, do not forget to ask about her ambitions outside of a relationship. Allowing her to share her personal goals will show that you can be supportive of her goals.

Now that you are armed with some questions and conversation starters, you should be able to use a chat line with confidence! When the conversation nears a close, make sure to tell the woman you are speaking with that you appreciate her time. Let her know that you’d like to take her out on a date and ask her what her favorite place would be for the setting of that date.

Women like to know that their feelings are considered when a man makes plans. They also like to know that a man is legitimately making the plan in the first place. In 2019, women are used to men making suggestion and allusions to date, but never following through. If you pick a place and set a date, your match will know that you are serious. You can even make it old school by offering to pick her up. Don’t be offended if she doesn’t want to take that offer. She likely is putting her safety first by meeting up in a public space before getting into a car with someone she doesn’t know… yet! We hope his article nudges you in the right direction when it comes to speaking to a woman you want a relationship with on a chat line!

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