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How Bad Boys Control Women (The Real Jedi Mind Trick)



These Aren’t the Droids You’re Looking For

To best visualize the control bad boys have over women, let’s revisit a classic Jedi mind trick scene from the original Star Wars. In this scene, Obi-Wan Kenobi, Luke Skywalker, and the droids are stopped by a group of storm troopers, who are actually looking for these exact droids. But Obi-Wan lays down the Jedi mind trick on the weak-minded storm trooper and that’s all she wrote.

Storm Trooper: Let me see some identification.

Obi-Wan waves his hand magically at the Storm Trooper.

Obi-Wan: You don’t need to see his identification.

The Storm Trooper looks stunned, then…

Storm Trooper: We don’t need to see his identification.

Obi-Wan: These aren’t the droids you’re looking for.

Storm Trooper: These aren’t the droids we’re looking for.

Obi-Wan: He can go about his business.

Storm Trooper: You can go about your business.

Obi-Wan: Move along.

Storm Trooper: Move along. Move along.

Now bear in mind that not all women are storm troopers and not all men have Jedi mind powers, but enough of each do that it puzzles good men, and the friends of those women, as to why they stay with these guys. What is it about bad boys that allows them to brainwash good women into staying, even when they know they shouldn’t?

Intermittent Reinforcement

The reason this happens is because bad boys are master manipulators who have learned the powerful technique of intermittent reinforcement (IR). You’ve probably heard of positive reinforcement (giving someone something they want when they do something good) and even negative reinforcement (taking something away from someone when they do something bad).

Well IR is simply a combination of both, but at random intervals. To clarify, let’s look at the famous pigeon experiment.

There was a famous psychology experiment that locked a pigeon in a cage with a bar that he could peck on to get food. There were three different situations the pigeon encountered. In the first, the pigeon never got any food when it pecked the bar. Obviously it didn’t take long before it never pecked it again. In the second, the pigeon got food every time it pecked the bar, and it would soon, predictably, only peck it when it got hungry.

However, in the third situation the pigeon would only get food sometimes when it pecked the bar. Here, the pigeon pecked the bar all the time, frantically as though it was obsessed. The experimenters called this intermittent reinforcement and it has been proven to be an extremely powerful motivator for getting the type of behavior you want out of someone.

How Bad Boys Control Women

Bad boys, through the masterful use of IR, are consistently able to treat women like dirt, knowing full well that they aren’t going anywhere. Here’s how they do it.

The first thing bad boys do is to set up a pattern of positive reinforcement. They treat their woman like a queen and give her everything she wants (passion, love, money, etc.) This is the most important step, because this will determine how much of a hold he has later. Many times the bad boy is the sweetest, most interesting person the woman has ever known. This is the hook. Then, at the very first sign of her taking his kindness for granted, he stops and withdraws all of it instantly. The woman then struggles to regain this kindness and he’s got her.

Just like pigeons, humans can’t resist IR either. When a person is treated great all of the time by someone, they will invariably start to take that behavior for granted. So when a guy is always nice and sweet to his woman it becomes expected of him. She always knows exactly what she’s going to get. There’s no mystery there and, like it or not, mystery is interesting.

When a bad boy withdraws his kindness it’s mind control. It’s just like that pigeon pecking at the pole, because the woman now becomes obsessed with getting that food again-in this case the food being his “good side.” When the bad boy feels as though he’s starting to lose her, he simply turns the charm back on, but only until she takes him for granted again, then wash, rinse, and repeat. This is the real Jedi mind trick that bad boys use and it’s how they always seem to get (and keep) the woman.

People Want What They Can’t Have

It’s human nature that we want things that we cannot have and take for granted things that are easily obtained, no matter how good they might be. This is the trait that makes us want things we can’t afford or chase after women that are way out of our league. It’s the same trait that makes good women stay with bad guys and ignore the good ones.

Bad boys always have the mentality that “I can take you or leave you, either way is no big deal.” They flirt with other women, have lots of friends, and ignore her phone calls from time to time. Because of all this, their woman begins to doubt whether or not she can really have him.

Think about your old relationships (or your current one). I’ll bet there was someone you could never really get over, even though they were obviously bad for you. I’ll bet that sometimes that person was great! Maybe they were fun, hilarious and amazing in bed. But other times, they had some serious issues going on that made you want to leave and yet you stayed. Even after you finally parted ways you still thought about them, didn’t you?

If you felt like you did everything possible to please them and it was never enough, then you now understand the power of intermittent reinforcement.

Now that you understand what intermittent reinforcement is, the next time you run across a storm trooper-like woman who’s being controlled with an Obi-Wan mind trick, send her this article. Have her take off that storm trooper mask and incorporate her own powers-

The power to recognize, reject, and release.

— T3D

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4 Newbie Steps to Earn Money Online




Many people are looking for the opportunity online so that they can earn money online. However, most beginners do not know how to make money online. All they know is that making money online is something interesting because they can work from the comfort of their home, and their online business can be automated because internet is the right tool for it.

The question now is, how are you going to earn money online? If you are a beginner and you are looking for ways to earn money online, below are 5 foundation steps for you. Follow them and you will create an extra income stream online.

1. Identify which market you are going into. You have to carry out market research and find out a market that is suitable to you, profitable and has less competition. Market research is what most people do not do for their online business, and that is why they fail. You should learn this skill because it is going to determine the foundation of your business.

2. Build a lead capture page. The main reason here is to capture your visitors’ emails and names so that you can contact them and promote them what you are selling through email marketing. Email marketing is the best medium to close sales so far. And if you want this process to be automated, you need to have an auto-responder where it can help you to manage your list of subscribers and send them emails automatically. If you are not building a list, you are not building your online business.

3. Pre-sell and warm up your list with quality content that they are looking for. Everyone surf the internet because they are looking for information and if you do this correctly, your conversion rate will be high. It is the quality content that you give your prospects that will build up the relationship and trust for you. This is what every successful marketer is doing; they are building their name and credibility by giving you more values. You have to build relationship with your list before you sell them anything.

4. Drive massive traffic to your lead capture page. Traffic generation is easy as long as you are willing to take the necessary action. Most people fail in driving traffic because they are not putting in any effort in traffic generation; they just dream about it but never really take any action step. Traffic generation is an action-based process, once you take the action, traffic will come, as simple as that.

These are the 4 basic steps that you must follow if you want to earn money online. I believe that if you are following through all the steps here, you will soon create an extra income stream for yourself.

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Branded Promotional T Shirts for Your Business




What’s in a name? When it comes to promotions, the brand of promotional gifts used matters a lot to the promotional endeavour of every business to such an extent that it can actually decide the fate of the business in the market. If the products are made by a popular company, the business can easily benefit from it. Using branded products turned into Promotional T Shirts make it easy for any business to establish its fame in the market. This means that all the business had to do is to take things from there; no more starting from zero. So what are the commonly used brands of T shirts in promotions? Here are some:

  • Hanes is perhaps the most expensive and the most elegant T shirt brand used in promotions. Hanes is known for its pre-shrunk shirts, and they recently introduced a variant whose collar does not bacon. As a testament to the popularity of the brand, Hanes is endorsed by no less than Michael Jordan who is considered as among the greatest people to ever play basketball.
  • Gap is also another popular brand of Promotional T Shirts. Gap is known for the quality of their shirts and also for comfort and design. The brand is popular across young professionals and also as a sportswear for many college students. The best benefit of using Gap T shirts in promotions is that their shirts often come in one colour, which makes it easy to print the marks of a business on it.
  • Jockey is another of the common Promotional T Shirts brands commonly used in promotions. Although there are Jockey shirts also intended for women, majority of these are actually intended for men. This is evident in the design of the shirts, which highlight masculinity.
  • Benetton is another of the branded products usually seen in promotions. Benetton has its appeal with young professionals especially those that an have inclination for collared shirts. Unlike the others mentioned here, Benetton is more appealing to professionals because it portrays a professional image and a clean cut design. This is appealing to business companies seeking to establish themselves in the same mould.

Buying the right promotional gifts is important to assure success for a business in promotions. In the case of Promotional T Shirts, the importance is on the fact that these are the very representation of the business in the market. How the people react to it will severely affect the fate of the business.

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Cerberus The Ultimate Airsoft Weapon




The much applauded “Cerberus” gun from the Gungrave game has for years been sought after by enthusiast everywhere in the world. Just go online and look for Gungrave gun and you should have several screens filled with data. A part of the search will probably be YouTube videos showing one Airsoft pistol that shoots pellets. It’s not surprisingly not for sale.

The name Cerberus belongs to the three-headed hound of Hades.. Cerberus was an Underworld watchdog which was flesh-eating and fierce. His task was to keep the living from entering “The Underworld” the land of the dead. Even the gods feared Cerberus. It is a proper name of the weapons that Grave carries considering that Brandon Heat was resurrected after being dead for fifteen years. One of the main features about this weapon is that it never runs out of ammo. Nevertheless I believe in Gungrave Overdose you can observe him reloading.

This weapon is of great interest to the younger airsoft enthusiasts as it is so big. Which means more deadly. Knowing that ensures that your opponent will be more terrified of you coming after them.

Now a Cerberus airsoft conversion kit was developed in Japan that used an Tokyo Marui Glock 26 blow back gas gun as the principle airsoft component for the Cerberus gun. It was a true airsoft pistol after the conversion was complete. It had been only available in Japan and never released on the market in the U.S.A.. The kit sold for approx $220 dollars. The company that created the kit now no longer makes it, sorry. Now a number of individuals have made a real bullet firing weapon such as Vash Trigun, but so far as I could find nobody has made a real Cerberus weapon.

There are a few of companies which are making theatrical props and they have created very, very good models of the gun. They don’t seem to be cheap though, they run about $250 each. And they only make them to order.

I know of a brand new comer to the marketplace that is in progress on a brand new model kit that will have the main parts in metal and some plastic cast parts. I have been told that if all goes as planned, the slide and hammer will work. No details regarding how this can be going to be accomplished. It is going to be ready to paint and maybe in the price range of $50 – $70 dollars per kit, however price may change because of material costs. Time will tell. Possible date of offering is going to be early 2012.

There’s also a paper model available online that features a moving top slide and hammer. Now I know that some might imagine a paper model is ridicules. Just in case you don’t know about paper craft models, they can be sturdy when complete. Also, they are created from card stock and not print paper. You will need a steady hand and some patients at times to build, however once your Cerberus gun is complete they are really nice for display They can be handled, but not surprisingly they are not meant to be played with as toys.

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