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Ask Amy: Dad moved in, now — how to get him out?

Dear Amy: I’m asking a question on behalf of my friend, “Brad,” who is in a sticky situation.
Brad’s dad had surgery several weeks ago and is doing well now.
He stayed with Brad while he recuperated for nearly two months — all through the holidays.
The dad has his own home nearby and is a widower.
He has settled into Brad’s home with absolutely no regard for other family members. Brad’s daughter recently packed her bags and moved out because there is no more privacy at the home.
Brad and I actually took the dad to a medical appointment and then took him to his house to see what shape it was in.
The home is organized, cozy and his own, but he is refusing to leave Brad’s house.
He has no concept of privacy. He took over the entire first floor living room, kitchen, guest bathroom, den, and dining room.
Brad can’t enjoy his own home anymore, and his dad won’t budge!
Do you have any ideas on how to politely and tactfully ask Dad to return to his own home?
Is there a way I can mediate this situation to take some of the burden of Brad?
— Supportive Friend
Dear Supportive: “Brad’s” father might be nervous about returning to his home post-surgery, and since he seems to have settled into his son’s home so thoroughly, he has no incentive to leave.
If Brad and his dad’s physician are certain his father has recovered and is safe living on his own, Brad could set a quick deadline for his father to return to his own house. This should be conveyed in a neutral, no-nonsense, friendly and firm fashion: “Dad, it’s time to get you back home so we can all get back into our routines. I’m going to take you back on Friday, so let’s start getting you packed up.”
If his father balks, Brad could suggest that he needs to “give it a try,” and Brad could stay overnight with him there to make sure he can get reacclimated. The son should offer lots of reassurance.
Brad (and you) should help him to get moved in and settled and should prepare a meal and eat with him.
Brad should make sure his father has access to nutritious and easy-to-prepare food.
His father might also benefit from a “life alert”-type system, which can offer a safety net for those living alone, and peace of mind for their loved ones.
Dear Amy: When my husband died, one of his friends started calling me. I got a small amount of life insurance and within six months he asked to borrow some money. I had him sign a note.
He paid monthly until I sold my house and moved to a smaller place. Then he stopped paying and answering my calls.
I wrote off the debt to my new life’s “tuition.”
He called me recently. He said he had to know why I was mad at him.
I said I was hurt that he used me as an ATM, and that he could repair things by repaying me, but not to call me again.
The problem is he still calls. I blocked Facebook, email, and my phone to him.
We share some friends, and they say they have “given” him money.
Most of them are still friends with him. I still get messages from him, as my friends tell him my new cell number.
What do I do? I don’t want to lose my social circle.
— The ATM
Dear ATM: You won’t lose your social circle, if you remove this man from being at the center of it.
Your friends have a right to assume the risk of having a friendship with him.
Block his number on your new phone. Don’t comment when others discuss him. He is no longer your problem.
Dear Amy: “Wondering” had a friend whose father died on the friend’s birthday.
My mother passed away on my 10th birthday. The day has been bittersweet for the 52 years since.
I would suggest that wishing me a happy day while qualifying it as the anniversary of my mother’s death is truly unkind.
If you want to talk to me face to face about the mix of my birthday and loss of my mother, there may be a time to do that, but in a card — no thank you.
— Stephanie
Dear Stephanie: This was a very recent loss for “Wondering’s” friend, and thank you for offering your perspective.
Bittersweet, indeed. This sounds very tough.
(You can email Amy Dickinson at [email protected] or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or Facebook.)
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Man who fled police, his passenger killed in Anoka crash, authorities say

A driver who fled police and his passenger were killed after their car smashed into a pickup truck late Tuesday night in Anoka, according to authorities.
Just after 11:30 p.m., a Coon Rapids officer tried to make a traffic stop on 2000 Buick LeSabre on Hanson Boulevard near Gateway Drive Northwest, but the driver took off and a short pursuit began, the Anoka County Sheriff’s Office said in a Wednesday statement.
The pursuit was called off by Coon Rapids police as the car entered Anoka, where about a mile down the road it crashed into a 2006 Dodge Ram on Main Street near Ferry Street, the sheriff’s office said. The driver of the fleeing vehicle died at the scene, while his passenger — also a man — was transported to a hospital, where he died of his injuries.
The driver of the pickup truck had minor injuries and was released at the scene.
The names of the men killed are being withheld by authorities pending notification of family.
The crash remains under investigation by the Minnesota State Patrol, Anoka and Coon Rapids police and the sheriff’s office.
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Insiders: Season 2 Episode 1 – May 19 Release, Time And What Is It About?

Insiders is a reality television series whereby contestants are filmed constantly, sometimes even without their prior knowledge. The differences between their behavior on and off camera are then confronted. It’s a Spanish television series with Najwa Nimri as the host. This show has everything a fan could ask for, including drama and twists!
The past winner Nicole del ago Espinosa, 27, is a social media personality and a proud trans woman. She required the money for surgery to express her gender on the exterior; also she wouldn’t go down without a fight, and she didn’t! She won the show and the hearts of all the viewers.
Will Season 2 Be As Dramatic As Season 1?
Season 1 contained 7 episodes with a running time of 40-60 minutes, which brought a lot of drama into the scenario. It has also received an average 6-point rating for all the episode.
Viewers compared it to the American television series Unreal in Spain; As the baseline of season 2 is similar to season 1, it all comes down to the current season’s contestants.
The official synopsis presented on Netflix about this season is, “Twelve people think they’re in the final casting around for a reality show. “As acknowledged from this statement, the drama would be of the same level as season 1, but with different contestants this time.
Contestants Of Insiders Season 2
There are 11 participants in the season 2, including Nowa (29, from Mérida, a social worker), Tania (35 from La Rioja, a store clerk), Ramón(30 from Ibiza, a private chef), Lorenzo (34 from Ciudad Real, Graphic designer), Adan (30 from Seville, Businessman), Raquel (29 from Madrid, Model), Marta (25 from Madrid, a human resource worker), Pablo (29 from Huelva, engineer), Alex (34 from Madrid, commercial advisor) and Sofia(25 from Santa Cruz de Tenerife, a Business Administration student).
Release Date And Where To Watch?
The first 3 episodes of Insiders season 2 will release on Netflix on 19th May 2022. So, if you’re planning on binge-watching, the first 3 episodes will be available on Netflix.
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UCF offers Daytona Beach Mainland 2024 safety Zay Mincey

The last few players rom Daytona Beach Mainland High to play for UCF turned out to be quite productive. Knights coaches are hoping 2024 safety Zavier “Zay” Mincey is next.
Mincey was offered a scholarship by UCF on Tuesday, one of numerous offers the big defensive back — 6-foot-3, 190 pounds — has picked up recently. Mincey now has 13 offers from schools including Auburn, Notre Dame, Ole Miss and Texas A&M, so the Knights have their work cut out for them to win him over,
Mincey, a multi-sport standout, competed at the Florida Track and Field Championships in Gainesville this past week. He didn’t have his best performances, but finished 10th in the long jump (21 feet, 4¾ inches) and 11th in the high jump (5 feet, 11½ inches).
Last season for Mainland, Mincey averaged 3.2 tackles per game and had 1 tackle for loss. He also had 2 interceptions and 6 pass deflections.
The recent history of success for Mainland players at UCF was highlighted by the self-proclaimed fastest man in college football Adrian Killins, who finished his UCF career as the fifth-best rusher in UCF history with 2,459 career rushing yards and 25 touchdowns. Killins was last in the NFL as a roster player with the Denver Broncos. He is a free agent.
Offensive tackle Marcus Tatum also had a solid stay at UCF after transferring from Tennessee. Tatum earned all-AAC honors in each of his final two seasons as a Knight. Tatum recently signed a free-agent contract with the Jacksonville Jaguars.
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