90 Day Fiancé star Kim Menzies has no regrets about ending any and all communication with ex-fiancé Usman “SojaBoy” Umar.
“It’s going to by no means cease till I put a cease to it,” Kim, 54, solely informed Us Weekly whereas selling the TLC franchise. “Nothing actually occurred. I simply really feel prefer it’s greatest. We don’t comply with one another on social media. … I feel for him to maneuver on and for me to maneuver on, it’s simply higher to simply minimize it off.”
Followers met Kim and Usman, 35, throughout season 5 of 90 Day Fiancé: Earlier than the 90 Days in 2022. Whereas they had been relationship, Kim typically tried to impress her accomplice by touring to Nigeria and even gave him costly items like a MacBook and PlayStation 5.
Throughout season 7 of 90 Day Fiancé: Fortunately Ever After?, nevertheless, the couple introduced they had been going their separate methods.
“I really feel like he was there for me once I wanted him, and I used to be there for him when he wanted me,” Kim defined to Us. “I really feel like generally, due to the journey we shared collectively and so many individuals noticed it, that was retaining us related. A leopard doesn’t change his spots, so it’s the identical on a regular basis.”
The San Diego resident is attempting to maneuver ahead and even get again into the relationship sport. Though she’s not prepared to call names, Kim confirmed that she is speaking to “just a few folks, nevertheless it’s not critical.”
“I’m placing my toe within the water. I’ll simply say that,” she shared. “I feel it’s thrilling. I’m speaking to at least one particularly, nevertheless it’s bizarre as a result of I knew him earlier than I met Usman. I knew him earlier than that, after which we simply sort of rekindled somewhat bit.”
She is also proud to inform her longtime followers that she feels extra assured than ever earlier than.
Throughout her relationship with Usman, the TLC actuality star confronted body-shaming feedback. Followers additionally questioned if their 18-year age distinction had an affect on their love story.
Now, Kim isn’t trying to date somebody considerably youthful than her. As a substitute, she needs a person who will settle for her simply the way in which she is.
“I’m going to be 55 subsequent 12 months,” she informed Us. “I’m joyful. … I really feel like I’m lastly attending to be Kim, and I do know that sounds loopy that I’m going to be 55, however I really feel like I’m simply genuinely a pleasant particular person. I’m genuinely a contented particular person, and that’s simply how I wish to spend the remainder of my life. I don’t need the gaslighting, and I simply wish to be joyful.”
The 90 Day Fiancé franchise airs on TLC.
With reporting by Christina Garibaldi