Brittany Snow detailed how ex-husband Tyler Stanaland “burnt” down their relationship following his actions on Promoting the OC season 1.
Snow, 38, sat down with “Name Her Daddy” host Alexandra Cooper for an in-depth dialog, launched on Wednesday, March 27, about her life after divorce.
“What occurred for me — and I gained’t talk about this particularly as a result of I believe this goes with a number of my previous relationships or issues that I inform my pals — which is to really begin realizing and seeing them as actual individuals, and never this idealized model of what you thought or what you constructed, however who they’re actually,” Snow stated when discussing how she’s healed from the cut up.
Snow recalled feeling “grateful” for all of the drama that surrounded her ex-husband’s actuality present as a result of “it was a neon f–king signal” of a crimson flag.
Snow and Stanaland, 34, tied the knot in March 2020. When Promoting the OC season 1 premiered in August 2022, Stanaland made headlines for his flirty conduct with different ladies — primarily Kayla Cardona and Alex Corridor — whom he labored with on the Oppenheim Group. (He claimed Cardona tried to kiss him off digital camera and took part in “noseys” with Corridor.)
Tyler Stanaland (L) and Brittany Snow John Shearer/Getty Photos
“I used to be not conscious of a number of issues, and I’ll say that,” Snow instructed Cooper on Wednesday. “So, I’ll say, what individuals suppose occurred, occurred.”
Snow and Stanaland introduced their separation in September 2022. The Pitch Excellent actress filed for divorce in January 2023, and so they formally reached a settlement in July of that yr.
Hold scrolling to see what Snow stated concerning the drama surrounding her divorce on “Name Her Daddy”:
Her Relationship With the ‘Promoting the OC’ Forged
Snow referred to the solid as “they” all through everything of the podcast.
The solid of Promoting the OC turned heads for his or her sophisticated — and really flirty — workplace relationships throughout season 1, and the drama continues to be going robust. Tyler Stanaland’s intimate friendships with Alexandra “Alex” Corridor and Polly Brindle, for instance, raised some eyebrows when the present premiered in August 2022, as Tyler was married to […]
“They’ve taken up — and I’m collectively calling all of them ‘they’ as a result of I don’t know any of them besides my ex-husband,” she stated. “They took up a number of power and emotion and time and actual property in my head, and I don’t wish to give them any extra time and power as a result of then they might win and they’d get what they wished, which was getting my time and power and a focus.”
Snow went on to say that she’s launched a number of “anger” and given herself “grace” all through all the state of affairs.
How She Watched ‘Promoting the OC’
“In fact I noticed it, watched it with my canine,” she recalled. “No matter. Now I can snigger about it as a result of I believe it’s so … it’s insane, and it’s so humorous. It’s so loopy.”
Snow additionally doubled down on that she “didn’t know what was occurring” whereas Promoting the OC was being filmed.
“As somebody who’s in order hands-on with my profession, I believe I used to be simply fully shocked that I didn’t have a deal with on actuality in that manner. That was stunning,” the actress defined, recalling the “worst” day when she discovered about Stanland’s actions.
Having ‘Instincts’ About Her Ex
“There was some … I had instincts, and I believe as a result of I used to be in love, I didn’t belief them,” she admitted.
Elsewhere within the episode, Snow did share that there was a number of love between herself and Stanaland.
“What occurred, occurred, and I believe what it’s alluded to within the press is true,” she continued, providing extra particulars on their relationship. “There was a wedding there. There was a lot love. I believe that grey is difficult to grasp as a result of it’s far more salacious and attention-grabbing that it’s similar to, he did this, and she or he did this.”
She added: “I believe lots of people go into relationships the place somebody hurts them, however I don’t remorse it. I don’t remorse something that occurred. I cherished that point that we had after we had it.”
Having Assist Alongside the Manner
As she handled the breakup, Snow had the assist of her shut group of pals.
I actually, actually shout out and provides such due to my pals who simply laid there with me. They didn’t attempt to repair it, and so they didn’t attempt to — as a result of there’s nothing to repair,” she shared. “There’s nothing to alter. It’s what it’s. And so they simply let me simply be, and that’s what I wanted at the moment.”
Her Relationship Standing Now
Whereas Snow admitted that she’s at present single, she’s been “out and in of issues” however not an precise relationship.
“I’ve been, let’s use air quotes right here, single weirdly. I’m not saying weirdly, it’s so bizarre for me to be single,” she defined. “I’m saying weirdly as a result of it’s very straightforward for me to get in a relationship, and I’ve been actively making an attempt to be alone and be with myself and simply really feel the emotions and never need to band-aid it with sparkly, shiny, emotional factor.”