Olivia Munn is opening up about her daughter’s delivery and why welcoming her through surrogate gave her a wholly new parenting perspective.
“Numerous occasions folks say, ‘Oh, the dads don’t actually join with the child till it’s proper there in entrance of them,” Munn, 44, told People in an interview revealed on Saturday, June 7. “The dads, they’re not carrying the child. I carried Malcolm, so I understood from the very genesis like, okay, I’ve obtained a life in me. Your physique is altering and your vitality is altering and your hair is altering and the whole lot’s altering, so it feels very actual on a regular basis.”
She continued, “Despite the fact that all of it felt very actual for me, and our surrogate and I spoke on a regular basis and he or she’d ship me movies, it was a bit little bit of, ‘Oh wait, she’s coming.’ I felt like an expectant father.”
Munn and her husband, comic John Mulaney, welcomed their daughter Méi through surrogate on September 14, 2024. The pair additionally share son Malcolm, 3.
The couple determined to depend on the assistance of a surrogate to develop their household after Munn was identified with breast most cancers in April 2023. After treating the most cancers through a lymph node dissection, a nipple delay process and a double mastectomy, Munn instructed the outlet that she had an egg retrieval “window” earlier than a hysterectomy and oophorectomy (the elimination of her uterus, fallopian tubes and ovaries) despatched her into menopause.
Olivia Munn arrives on the CHANEL Tribeca Competition Ladies’s Luncheon To Have fun The THROUGH HER LENS Program on June 06, 2025 in New York Metropolis. Patricia Schlein/Star Max/GC Pictures)
“It was vital to do it at that second,” she defined, “but it surely was additionally scary as a result of my sort of most cancers feeds on hormones, and there are lots of hormone injections with IVF.”
Munn additionally detailed her journey discovering the appropriate surrogate, telling Folks that her main objective was to seek out “somebody who was form.”
“I Simply wished her to be form, and I wanted her to grasp that it is a path that I needed to go on,” she added. “This isn’t a alternative I’d’ve made for myself.”
Munn additionally anxious about whether or not it was attainable to discover a surrogate who would “love and maintain my daughter as a lot as I’d,” including that in the end she was “so fortunate to seek out somebody so form who we bonded with a lot.”
Whereas welcoming her daughter through surrogate made Munn concern that she wouldn’t be capable of join together with her daughter, these fears rapidly dissipated as soon as she had her youngster in her arms.
“Méi would cry, and I used to be the one one who may get her to cease,” she defined. “I knew she knew me, and I knew her. She’s obtained this stick-straight hair that I had once I was a child. I believe as a result of I wasn’t capable of carry her, I actually wanted to see myself in her. I see myself in her a lot.”