Mariska Hargitay revealed the id of her organic father after “residing a lie” for 30 years.
The Regulation & Order: Particular Victims Unit star, 61, confirmed to Vanity Fair in an interview printed on Saturday, Could 17, that her organic father is Italian singer and comic Nelson Sardelli — not bodybuilder and actor, Mickey Hargitay, as she’d all the time been led to imagine.
Mariska’s new documentary My Mother Jayne explores the tragic aftermath of a June 1967 automobile crash that killed her mom, actress Jayne Mansfield, and severely injured the longer term Regulation & Order star at age 3.
Among the many revelations within the movie is that, earlier than Mariska’s start, her mom cut up from then-husband Mickey — with whom she had two different youngsters — and had a short affair with Nelson, 90. Jayne shortly broke issues off with the singer and returned to Mickey earlier than Mariska was born. (Jayne had an older daughter, Jayne Marie, born 1950, with first husband Paul Mansfield in addition to a son, Tony, born 1965, with third husband Matt Cimber following her 1964 divorce from Mickey.)
Mickey raised Mariska together with her two siblings — Mickey Jr., born 1958, and Zoltán, born 1960 — and it wasn’t till she noticed an image of Nelson in her 20s that she realized the reality.
“It was like the ground fell out from beneath me,” she says in My Mother Jayne. “Like my infrastructure dissolved.”
Mariska recalled Mickey angrily insisting he was her organic father of their one and solely dialog in regards to the subject. Mickey died at age 80 in 2006.

Mariska Hargitay and Mickey Hargitay Sr. in 2005 Steve Granitz/WireImage
The actress finally met Nelson for the primary time when she was 30 years previous. Although Nelson instructed her he’d been “ready 30 years for this second,” Mariska remembered going “full Olivia Benson on him.” (She has performed tough-as-nails NYPD detective Olivia Benson on Regulation & Order: Particular Victims Unit since 1999.)
“I used to be like, ‘I don’t need something, I don’t want something from you … I’ve a dad,’” Mariska mentioned. “There was one thing about loyalty. I needed to be loyal to Mickey.”
Nonetheless, Mariska finally mended fences with Nelson and his household. She mentioned she in the end got here to the conclusion that she “grew up the place [she] was speculated to.”
“I do know that everybody made the only option for me,” she added. “I’m Mickey Hargitay’s daughter — that’s not a lie.”
In November 2024, Mariska opened up on the Hope for Despair Analysis Basis’s 18th Annual HOPE Luncheon Seminar about what it was like rising up “in a home of individuals coping with the tragedy in their very own manner” following Jayne’s dying.
“As a result of there was a lot grief, there wasn’t room to prioritize anybody,” she defined. “We didn’t have the instruments that we’ve got now to metabolize and perceive trauma.”
Mariska and husband Peter Hermann have been married since 2004 and share three youngsters — August Miklos Friedrich, born 2006, Amaya Josephine Hermann, born 2011, and Andrew Nicolas Hermann, born 2011.
My Mother Jayne marks Mariska’s debut as documentary director. The emotional movie premiered Saturday on the Cannes Movie Pageant, the place it’s in rivalry for the L’Œil d’or (which interprets from French to English as “The Golden Eye, The Documentary Prize.”).
My Mother Jayne has its TV premiere on HBO June 27.