Martha Plimpton has by no means forgotten what it was like being River Phoenix’s “old flame” and the way he struggled with fame earlier than his demise at age 23.
“He was not as geared up, I feel, as perhaps another folks is perhaps to deal with that stuff,” Plimpton, 54, mentioned of Phoenix’s rise to fame in the course of the Tuesday, June 17, episode of Jesse Tyler Ferguson‘s “Dinner’s on Me” podcast.
She defined, “As a result of he was a really, at coronary heart, very harmless and a driven-by-love human being. So the contradictions of Hollywood and present enterprise have been way more tough for him.” Plimpton famous, “It was simpler for me, as a result of I grew up in New York and I used to be already a cynic by the point I used to be 13.”
The Goonies actress added: “I feel fame was actually laborious on River. I feel he actually simply didn’t know what to do with all of that. He wished to do good. The contradictions of it have been too tough.”
Plimpton and Phoenix met as youngsters filming 1986’s The Mosquito Coast the place they sparked a four-year romance. (The film got here out the identical 12 months as Stand By Me, which is one in all Phoenix’s most iconic roles.)

Throughout their relationship, Plimpton noticed Phoenix’s profession take off together with being his plus 1 on the 1989 Academy Awards the place he was nominated for Greatest Actor in a Supporting Position for his half in Working on Empty. Plimpton was additionally a part of the undertaking, taking part in Lorna Phillips, whereas Phoenix portrayed Danny Pope.
As soon as they break up, Plimpton and Phoenix remained shut buddies till his demise in 1993 on the age of 23.
“We did stay buddies. We have been one another’s old flame,” she recalled. “That relationship by no means actually goes away. You may’t ever let one thing like that go. It’s simply too necessary and too, like, altering.”

The Elevating Hope actress fondly spoke of her time with Phoenix, saying, “I imply, it’s made you who you might be, particularly in these actually youth. I imply, it’s an enormous a part of who I’m.”
Whereas Phoenix’s life was minimize quick after he suffered a drug overdose exterior of Los Angeles’ famed Viper Room, Plimpton is assured if the actor had time he would’ve overcome his habit points — and change into an instance of what to not do.
“He was fortunate to have me and his household, his brothers and sisters,” she shared. “I feel, , his persona or his affliction, his sickness was extremely tough for him to handle on his personal.”
She mentioned by tears, “And he by no means actually received the assistance that I feel he would’ve finished amazingly nicely with if he had gotten that assist.”

Plimpton received choked up, including, “I feel he would have been an unimaginable advocate for sobriety and for folks scuffling with habit. Sadly, it simply received him earlier than he had an opportunity to do this. However yeah, I miss him each single day.”
On the time of his demise, River was survived by his mother and father, John and Arlyn “Coronary heart” Phoenix, and his 4 siblings: Joaquin, Rain, Liberty and Summer time Phoenix, all of whom pursued performing at a younger age.